Recognizing Your Resurrection Moment

There comes a moment when you finally feel it—the shift. After walking through the fire, surviving the darkest nights, and letting go of what no longer serves you, something clicks.

It’s subtle at first. Maybe it’s a quiet confidence that wasn’t there before, a decision you make with clarity, or a feeling that you can handle more than you ever thought possible. You might not be able to pinpoint the exact moment, but you know something has changed.

This is your resurrection moment—the evidence that transformation isn’t just a concept; it’s happening in real time, inside you.

Even after growth, it can be hard to recognize that you’ve changed.

• You might still compare yourself to who you were, feeling like “I’m not there yet.”

• Old doubts or fears can creep in, making you question if the progress is real.

• You may feel impatient, expecting dramatic breakthroughs instead of appreciating subtle shifts.

These struggles can keep you from fully embracing your transformation. It’s easy to miss the evidence that your strength and hope are now guiding your choices.

Here’s the truth: your resurrection moment doesn’t have to be monumental to be meaningful.

Transformation often shows up in small, consistent ways—how you handle challenges now, the way you honor your boundaries, or the choices you make that align with your true self. Recognizing these moments trains you to trust your growth and lean into your strength and hope.

Your resurrection moment is your signal: you’ve survived, you’ve learned, and you’re ready for the next chapter. It’s proof that the journey has reshaped you, and that you are more resilient and capable than you ever realized.

1. Pause and Reflect: Take a moment to notice areas where you feel stronger, more confident, or more in control.

2. Journal Your Evidence: List tangible changes you’ve seen in your habits, decisions, relationships, or mindset.

3. Celebrate Small Wins: Don’t wait for perfection or massive breakthroughs. Every choice that aligns with your growth is proof of transformation.

4. Anchor Your Hope: Remind yourself of the challenges you’ve overcome and the inner strength you’ve cultivated.

5. Share Your Moment: Talk to a trusted friend, mentor, or community about what’s shifted. Recognition is amplified when acknowledged aloud.

Tip: You can use your Progress Journal from the Training stage to track these resurrection moments and reflect on how far you’ve come.

I remember the first time I realized I wasn’t the same person I used to be. It wasn’t during a dramatic life event; it was in how I handled a conflict with grace instead of reacting out of fear. I paused, took a deep breath, and responded with clarity and confidence.

It hit me—this was the new me. I was finally seeing the fruit of all the work I’d done in the dark, the resilience I’d built, and the hope that had never left me. That quiet moment became a powerful reminder that transformation isn’t always loud—it’s often the still, strong voice of your own growth.

Your resurrection moment is proof that you are becoming who you were always meant to be. Embrace it, celebrate it, and let it remind you that hope and strength live within you.

Transformation isn’t over—it’s evolving. Each step, each choice, each breakthrough confirms that you are resilient, capable, and unstoppable. Recognize your growth, and use it to fuel the life you’ve been building all along.

Next Steps:

• Use your Become Her Journal to capture and reflect on your resurrection moments

• Read next: Rebuilding After the Breakdown

• Journal Prompt: What signs of your resurrection are you noticing today?